Reflections 20/40: Honesty

One of the most difficult things that one could ever do is be honest. While it is true that “honesty is the best policy”, it can bring all sorts of emotions, especially pain. It can hurt one’s ego or pride, when admitting mistakes and shortcomings reluctantly, and it can also bring guilt and shame when one decides to dwell on it.

But sometimes, people forget that being honest can also bring freedom and peace. When one keeps a secret for someone or for himself or when one pretends to be someone they are not in order to please people, being honest or true to one’s self and finally speaking up and saying the truth becomes a liberating experience.

At the end of the day, no matter the situation, it all boils down to perspective. Are you struggling with something right now? Just be honest and choose to see the better perspective.

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